Vance and I had the opportunity last weekend to be in Mesa to see her. I had the opportunity to share memories with her, thank her, and tell her how much I loved her. After a few months of battling leukemia, she was weak and not feeling well. It was an honor to be there in her last few days. I was able to hold her hand, rub her hands and legs that were in so much pain. She was the one that held and took care of me as a baby and child, but now the tables have turned! It was one of the most painful experiences for me but also one of the most spiritual. It made me think a lot about how I know that I will see her again.
She taught me a lot about generosity towards others. She also taught me the importance of reaching for the greatest blessings, and not accepting any less. She grew up in difficult circumstances as a child, but married a good man and has lived a wonderful life with seven successful children with many grandchildren and even a few great grandchildren. I love her smile, her laugh, and soft skin. I loved being able to grow up in Wisconsin with her so close.
It was amazing to see her. She has been though so much and still looked very beautiful to me. Although death is very sad, it must have been a relief for her from all the pain. This picture of us at the hospital will be one to keep forever. I love you Grandma and will miss you...
I found your blog by looking Rosie up on Google. I met her when I was 17 and she was about 30, a beautiful young mother who was an inspiration to me. Your grandfather, too, has had an impact on my life. How privileged I am to have known them both!
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I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma. I had no idea! How neat that you were able to go down to Arizona and see her. It sounds like she was an incredible person.
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